Work-from-home life looks tidy on camera… but behind the scenes? Total chaos. In this episode, Rowell and I talk about routines, guilt, distractions, and a few busy mom work from home tips I rely on to keep things running smoothly.
🎧 Listen to the full conversation on my podcast, In A Jam, now streaming on Spotify.
If there’s one thing the pandemic taught us, it’s this: working from home while raising kids is a whole different world. It’s not just a “temporary setup” anymore—this has become real life for many of us.
And honestly? It’s messy, funny, exhausting, and meaningful all at the same time.
In our latest episode, Rowell and I opened up about what it actually looks like behind those Zoom calls and clean virtual backgrounds.
Spoiler alert: it’s not as peaceful as people think. And if you’re searching for busy mom work from home tips, I promise you’ll find a lot of the real, unfiltered versions here.
The Chaos No One Sees on Zoom
You know that moment when your Zoom background looks clean and perfect—but the rest of your house looks like a storm passed through? That’s our everyday life.
Rowell talked about doing calls for his virtual law firm while also keeping an eye on his kids. Sometimes he’s literally putting them to sleep mid-call, scratching a back here and there while trying to sound professional. And honestly? I felt that. Because people only see the “mute/unmute” version of us… not the shouting kids, the barking dog, or the little hands knocking on the door.
I mean, I once got evicted from my own workspace because everybody woke up earlier than expected. So much for “quiet morning hours.”
Two Work-From-Home Parents, Two Different Worlds
Even though Rowell and I live in different time zones—Canada for me, the Philippines for him—we deal with the same struggles.
I shared my 5 a.m. routine (which sounds impressive until you see the chaos that follows). Those early hours are my peaceful pocket of the day—my own version of busy mom work from home tips in action. Sometimes that “tip” is just waking up before the noise, the requests, and the endless, “Mom, can you…?”
Rowell has his own version of survival. His schedule constantly shifts depending on nap times, school times, or simply the unpredictable moods of toddlers. Between calls, he’s also doing dad duties, husband duties, and “I just need two minutes of peace” duties.
That’s the thing with working from home—you don’t really clock in and clock out.
You’re constantly adjusting, negotiating, and squeezing things in between.
Busy Mom Work From Home Tips
One thing we both agreed on: self-care doesn’t have to be fancy. Sometimes it’s just waking up earlier. Or reading something inspiring. Or allowing yourself 10 minutes of quiet with your coffee.
Rowell shared how he tries to learn something new—books, online seminars—even when sleep is lacking. And I love that, because personal growth doesn’t stop just because we’re drowning in responsibilities.
If anything, it becomes even more important.
The Hidden Guilt No One Talks About
A big part of our conversation was about guilt—yes, even dads feel it.
People always say moms carry the mental load (and I agree), but it was refreshing to hear a dad talk about his own guilt too. Wanting alone time. Wanting to work outside. Missing coworkers. Feeling torn between being a good provider and a good parent.
Work-from-home guilt is universal. It doesn’t care about gender.
Parenthood + Working From Home = Constant Evolution
What I love about our conversation is that it reminded both of us that parenting changes every year. And our routines, expectations, and systems have to change too. What worked last month might not work today. And that’s okay.
We shared tips, funny stories, and lessons we’ve learned from people who are a little ahead of us in life. It’s comforting to know we’re all figuring this out at the same time, in our own messy, funny, imperfect ways.
Let’s Keep the Conversation Going
Parenting + work is not easy—but it’s easier when we talk about it, laugh about it, and learn from each other. I hope our conversation reminds you that you’re not alone in this wild, wonderful work-from-home maze.
If you want to hear the full episode, you can listen to it on the In a Jam Podcast on Spotify.
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